the easy way VS the difficult way

source: Yahoo! image <the road not taken- Robert Frost>

people keep asking, how to be happy in life or how to get things easily or to get rid of unwanted things or problems without facing so much trouble n difficulties. I've heard a few questions from different people with similar problem,

• how can we get money easily without putting so much effort on it?
• can people respect n treat us well at all time?
• what is the best method to get excellent grades without studying hard?
• is there any place for me to flee so tht no one will recognize me?
• are there good men/women still in diz world who'll accept us just d way we are?

the answer is yes n no. I won't detail them out here, yet my point is, there shud be give n take in life. give our best to get the best. or as d famous saying goes, the more u give the more u'll get. sometimes, they're easily said than be done. everyone, including me hopes tht things will work smoothly as planned. but if there's obstacle along the process, don't run n hide. face it positively with courage so tht we would be able to look at what we've achieved with pride. improve ourselves, think of n list out d best solutions, n give the very best by heart. earnestly. it doesn't mean tht once u fail, forever u will. sometimes, u'll fail several times. u might break down n cry. cry it out as much as u want. but then, wipe ur tears n stand up to face it n do 'something' about it. never back down no matter what because there's a price to pay for a happy ending.